There is no universally applicable rule. Each person’s first sexual encounter is special in its own way. It could be delightful, painful, or a combination of the two. Since there is no one correct way to have sex, the truth is that you figure it out as you go. Since it will only happen once, you’ll want to make sure you remember it for the right reasons, so there are a few things to keep in mind before you do it.
Women with more hymen tissue are more likely to have bleeding and pain during their first sex, though this is not always the case. The second time around, even if it hurts, it will likely be much better. If the pain and bleeding persist, though, you may want to consult a doctor about having your hymen checked.
Poor foreplay, often called warm-up, gets a lot of slack. Couples often overlook the importance of foreplay in favor of an immediate desire to have sex. The biological basis for this is that our bodies are able to get ready for penetration through arousal, which is achieved through foreplay. Research also indicates that it makes it easier to have an orgasmic experience.
Believe us when we say that it is very common for some men to not acquire a bone erection the first time. Engaging in first-time sex might be nerve-wracking and make arousal difficult, but it doesn’t make you a lousy bed partner. Additionally, some men have issues with cumulation or find the penetration painful. Keep in mind that everything is perfectly normal at the moment. Breathe deeply and let go. Let your intellect serve as your largest sexual organ. Gain mastery over it.
When a woman has her first sex, she may experience vaginal irritation. Honestly, it’s very standard. Keep in mind that it is critical to be clean before and after having sex. Do not delay in seeking medical assistance if the pain persists for more than a few days.
If this is your first sexual encounter, it’s best not to push yourself too far. At least for the time being, set aside all of your interests; there is already too much for a first-timer to handle. Make your selection based on where you feel most at ease, safe, and at home. The whole process will be easier to manage after that.
No matter what, you should never pretend that what’s bothering you is fine. Speak up whenever possible. If something seems off, say something. If you want to slow down or reduce the amount of pressure you place on your spouse, it’s best to talk to them about it.
You are more likely to get herpes, other sexually transmitted diseases, or even an unwanted pregnancy if you engage in sexual activity without protection. Therefore, be careful and use condoms at all times. Be completely forthright with your spouse about it.
The feeling of watching pornographic videos is vastly different from actual sex. You may expect everything to be raw, unpolished, and chaotic. So, keep your expectations reasonable and go with the flow.
